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Index Page » Self Enhancement » Positive Attitude Skills
 

Change Your Mindset, Change Your Outcome

 

Do you expect to win or do you expect to lose? Simple question. Answer?

The language of so many people suggests that when faced with an opportunity of any description, they don't expect to win. Therefore, by default, they are setting themselves up to lose.

Language is simply a manifestation of the way the mind thinks and the belief system that it has. The proof of this is how the words get assembled in the first place. They have to be thought - either consciously or sub-consciously.

What is your language? Is it positive or is it negative?

What do you say most of the time? Think about it with the following examples:

  • "I can do that" or "I could never do that."
  • "I expect to win" or "I don't expect to win."
  • "I'll do it" or "I'll try to do it."

    Have you ever asked somebody how he or she is feeling then wished immediately that you hadn't. Out of their mouth comes a litany of woe-is-me language. Tiresome, isn't it? I hope YOU don't do that when somebody asks you. Do you?

    Since what you naturally say is what you naturally think, your first step towards becoming a more positive person is to refuse to utter negative comments. That takes a conscious thought. Changing this tendency means that you will not actually hear yourself making self-sabotaging statements. Your ears will thank you for that! Don't dismiss the power of this. Your own voice is a great mind re-inforcer.

    The next step is to replace your negative thoughts with positive ones. The easiest way to do that is to absorb the teachings of personal development books. Some good ones to start with are:

  • "The Magic of Thinking Big" - David Schwartz
  • "Think and Grow Rich" - Napoleon Hill
  • "Psycho-Cybernetics" - Maxwell Maltz

    These are just a few titles. Another method is to undertake a personal development course.

    Whatever method you choose one thing will be certain - you will definitely become aware of negative habits. So, if you change your mindset you can change your outcomes.

    This article comes with reprint rights providing no changes are made and the resource box below accompanies it.

  • Author: Gary Simpson
     
    Author Bio:

    Gary Simpson

    Gary Simpson lives in Perth, Western Australia.

    His passions are writing (of course), reading, karate, body building, investment and growing tropical palms.

    His website is devoted to helping people achieve greater success and self esteem through personal development.

    Gary is a regular contributor to numerous magazines and newspapers. His articles and short stories appear in many forums. Thanks to the wonders of the internet, they are now being shared worldwide.

    He has written eight books:

    LARGE VOLUMES:

    - "Journey,Life and Destiny" - personal development (2 vols)

    - "How to Save $1000's and Increase Your Personal Net Wealth"

    - "Brain Training - Affirmations to Strengthen Mind and Body"

    - "Strike Back 1" - Self Defence Instruction Manual

    - "Strike Back 2" - Self Defence Instruction Manual

    SHORT VOLUMES:

    - "The Power of Choice" (FREE e-book) - a popular story about a man looking back on his achievements from the hereafter. It is a poignant story that has received accolades from all over the world - from Iceland to Canada to Great Britain to Morocco to New Zealand to the Czech Republic to the USA - and dozens of countries in between.

    The Power of Choice is a free resource and can be downloaded directly from Gary's website.

    - "Using Motivation and Self Esteem to Excel in Everything You Do" (FREE e-book) - valuable resource to introduce newcomers to the wonders of personal development. This book is available on request. You can secure your copy by leaving your name and email address (no "hotmail" addresses accepted) at his Motivation & Self Esteem for Success website.

    Gary's unique approach has been shaped by his 35 year pursuit of karate and his 15 year study of the principles of motivation. He has two personal mottos. These are:

    "Excellence of Execution."

    and

    "Imagination is Infinite."

    You can learn a great deal about all matters regarding motivation and self esteem at his website. You will find articles, interviews with achievers, motivational messages and other material. You can even opt to receive free material by visiting the "zenspiration" page.

    The Motivation and Self Esteem for Success website was constructed by Linda Caroll who Gary has called the "Kyoshi of Website Design" (In karate terminology Kyoshi means "Polished Master"). Visit Gary's website to see for yourself.

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