Have you ever been talking to a woman with the intent on her one day being your girlfriend or at least hooking up with you? Yet when you finally make your move she tells you that she thinks of you more as a friend than anything else. Congratulations you have just entered the "Friend Zone". What makes this even worst is any man who has found himself in the "Friend Zone" has no one to blame except him. When a man gets rejected by a woman, he should know that it had nothing to do with him and everything to do with her. Perhaps she was in a bad mood, seeing someone else, or just didn't like. Whatever her reason there really wasn't much you could've done about it. However the "Friend Zone" is an entirely different story. At the beginning you where doing everything right you created a sense of comfort between the two of you and gained her trust. Except instead of creating attraction and escalating your physical touch you chose to sit around in the comfort zone that you created. To make matter worse you also chose to at some point either jump from the comfort zone into the really physical zone or asked for her permission to jump, leaving her no choice but to put you in the "friend zone". There are plenty of reasons why a man may choose to linger around in the comfort zone, however, if you choose to then increase the relationship to something more physical. Realize that you have to know the current level that you are at and then take the steps necessary in order to get into that more intimate zone. One of the first steps is going to be to start creating attraction in her and then getting more physical, not just jumping from the comfort zone all the way to the big bang. |
