You can lose your soul mate due to many circumstances that are within and out of your control. Many believe that destiny is your master and you are a pawn in the hands of this invincible force. And since even death is a temporary separation in the concept of soul mates, you can find your lost soul mate again in another current life. Your lost soul mate can come to you again in the body of a child or even a dog, which can explain our inexplicable attachments to our pets.

There are, however, certain circumstances where you can lose your soul mate willfully. The biggest culprits here are anger, ego and mistrust. We can destroy a perfect soul mate connection if we let these enemies to creep into our relationships. The purest soul mate relationship is based on selfless loveclosest to a mothers love for her child. This kind of love cannot be destroyed by mistrust, ego or suspicion and hence is considered immortal love. If you are able to develop this rare intensity of emotion for your soul mate, then you should have no fear of losing him in this lifetime or in other lifetimes to come.

Many people believe you can make direct contact with a lost soul mate by consulting a clairvoyant, psychic, medium, or other metaphysical specialist. The people are said to be able to see across distances and times to retrieve images and message from the great beyond, whatever that may be. Perhaps this is a viable avenue to try.